Hasn't self-pity done enough damage to this world? I guarantee you 99% of your problems stem in some way from self-pity. People have these unhealthy perceptions and expectations for themselves and when they think they deserve more than what's actuality, they pity themselves. And when they pity themselves they weaken themselves, and weaken the integrity of the society around them. And if there's only one rule in life that should be followed, it's the golden one, "don't fuck over anyone else." And you fuck everyone over by moping, and raging, and sniveling, and complaining, all differing forms of pity.